Tuesday, November 26, 2013
I am neither Japanese nor a girl...
Hi Family,
Last P-Day was spent all inside our church`s Family History computers. Elder Rasmusen had to write all of his papers for his BYU application, so I just got to sit around in the computer lab for my entire P-Day. Really boring. This P-Day isn`t going to be any better. We have to now go settle something with Elder Rasmusen`s Alien Card in Kobe. I don`t want to get into all the hows and whys, but I get to spend my P-Day riding trains and visiting City Halls. I really hope that this will be the end of this streak of running around and doing nothing fun on P-Day.
You wanted to know what part of Canada Elder Rasmusen is from. He is from British Columbia and lives in a small town near Vancouver.
It is starting to get really cold here in Japan. As soon as the sun goes down, it starts to get freezing. The actual temperature isn`t that cold, but because of the humidity everything just seems really cold. No rain, no snow, just really cold.
I can`t remember anything special that happened last Tuesday. But last Wednesday, we got to teach the two young-women. It was pretty good and I think Yuna enjoyed it a lot because we taught an overview of the Plan of Salvation, and she has thought about some of the questions that tie into the plan of salvation. All and all, it was a good lesson. After the lesson, I gave Yuna your email address, Elizabeth, so I would expect that she will write to you soon. If not I will give you her email address so that you can write to her first. I also took a picture with them so that you can see who you are writing to. Yuna is the one in the middle and her friend is the one on the right. Apparently what Japanese teenage girls love to do when taking pictures now is to hide their faces and hold up two peace signs. I don`t get it at all, but then again I am neither Japanese nor a girl so... Wednesday was also the last day of Elder Steers being in Hirakata. I am sad to see him go, he was a really good guy and I will miss his sense of humor.
So, on Thursday we got another Elder in the Hirakata District. His name is Elder Fuchiguchi (I think, I keep on messing up his name). He is from Hawaii and is half Japanese and half American. I really don`t know to much about him to be honest.
We also got to go 'House Hunting' on Thursday. We have this potential investigator who is a realtor who works in a model home for Panasonic (Yeah, Panasonic the electronic company, I did not know that they made houses now...). We got to go through the house tour with her and see all the ins and outs of a modern Japanese home. It was pretty cool and really big, I thought, for a Japanese home. It has all the features one expects from a Panasonic home: two kitchens, run entirely off of solar energy in case a nuclear disaster happens (I had to use my electronic dictionary a lot when she was describing it. I don`t usually use words like 'Nuclear Radiation' when dealing with investigators), and has a bathroom in which the toilet flips open as soon as you open the bathroom door.
The rest of the week passed by normally.
I am really happy that you all are enjoying yourselves. It sounds like Vic is having fun with his new RC car and Elizabeth is enjoying the Hunger Games Movie. I think that dad is really rocking his new suit, you look way nice. Mom, I hope that moving all the Christmas stuff goes well; I think that you will make it all look very nice in the store. Madisen, I hope that everything is going to get better at work, especially with training a new employee.
Well, about the Christmas presents. I really don`t know when I will be able to buy them here in Japan, most likely in a couple of weeks. So I am really sorry, I won`t be able to get them there in time for Christmas, but I will try my very best to get them there as soon as possible.
About the sushi bar, it was actually one of the conveyor belt ones. What happens is that you have a conveyor belt pass by every booth with random sushi that you may want. You can pick the plates up whenever and start eating and your total cost will be however plates of sushi you ate at the end of your meal. You also have an electronic menu where you can order specific sushi that you want and they send it straight to you on a second conveyor belt that is exactly over the first. If you eat 5 plates, you get to slide them into a bin and play a little game on the electronic menu. It plays a little video and you watch and see if you win or not, if you win - you receive a little prize. I won one last time and I got a spinning top.
Well I don`t what else to talk about, so I think that I will just leave it here. I love you all,
Love,
Elder Klein
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
The Feel Good
| Kolton with his Pokemon calendar |
Hi Family,
So, last Preparation Day, I did not get to go and pet the magical deer in Nara. We had to stick around the apartment all day because the zone leaders had to swing by and get Elder Rasmusen`s signature on a baptismal record and Elder Steers and Elder Broeder took forever to email. So, by the time we finished doing everything and had some free time it was about 3:30. We couldn`t go to Nara because it takes 1 and a half hours just to ride the train there. So, we got to do my favorite thing on Preparation Day- sit around the apartment doing nothing. Guess what I get to do again today? You guessed it! I get to sit in the church family history computer room while my companion types out all of his essays for a BYU application until the end of Preparation Day. Can you imagine the kind of enthusiasm I am feeling right now...Haha!
Tuesday was a pretty normal day. We just ran through the motions and there is really nothing special to talk about.
Wednesday, we had another companion exchange, this time Elder Steers came over to Hirakata 2 (My area). Everything was pretty good, we planned a lesson for 3 hours, though, because the paperwork in this mission is absolutely ridiculous and because we have never planned together before. So, after 3 hours of planning and two bowls of popcorn while doing so, we finally finished our lesson plan to teach M. Shimai about the rest of the Restoration. The problem is that we didn`t have time to practice giving her lesson until it started. So, throwing caution to the wind, we waited for M. Shimai to arrive at the church which took her a little bit; she was 45 minutes late to the lesson (she is normally only 10 minutes late). After we sit down, with us and all of our members present, we say a prayer and, then, ask her how her Book of Mormon reading is going. She had no idea what she needed to read so she just opened up to the last book, Moroni, and started reading. She said that she had a question about what fasting is. I look at Elder Steers and we again threw caution to the wind and taught her about fasting instead of our 3 hour planned lesson because we had another lesson downstairs with our teenage women investigators in 15 minutes. After we finished the lesson, we booked it downstairs to teach another lesson, which went really well.
After that, we got to go visit a less active member down at the Hirakata shi eki. She is from the Philippians and, while I can`t write about everything that is happening in her life, she is going through absolute hell right now. It took all the strength that I had not to break down crying for her while she was telling me about her life. I told her in my sincerest of hearts that I could feel what she is going through and told her if there was anything that I could do to help her, than she needs to tell me.
After, we did that then Elder Steers wanted to help me feel a little better because I have been sick all week. He said that one of the things that he loves to do when he gets sick is to make a special drink to get him through the day. He said that the drink consists of Red Bull and Orange Juice. I was game for it, but I felt that there was something a little bit more that we could add to it. Then, it came to my mind - Match! Match is my favorite drink of all time (Yes my absolute favorite drink), plus it is a vitamin drink, so it has enough vitamins to kill a horse, and I felt like that would make all the difference. So, after buying all of our ingredients at a conveni, we headed up to our apartment to make the drink. However, after making the mixture of Red Bull, Orange Juice, and Match, I refused to drink it until we came up with a proper name. After talking for a little bit, I found the name for the drink, `The Feel Good`. After a couple of drinks of Feel Good, I was feeling a little better.
The next day, Thursday, we went on another companion exchange, this time with the Zone leaders. To be honest, we didn`t get much done in the exchange, but it was fun when we went to visit less active members with the one and only - Aoki kyodai! It was fun because we got lost 10 times because Aoki kyodai has no idea how to follow his GPS, even though I could tell what it was trying to tell us - even though I can`t speak super honorific Japanese like the GPS can. So, I had to give Aoki Kyodai directions all throughout the night when he wasn`t following the GPS`s instructions.
Friday, we got to go to my first Sushi Bar ever in Japan. It was Really Good... I want to go back there sometime, especially since it wasn`t very expensive and it is 5 minutes from our apartment. I can taste a HUGE difference between Japanese Sushi and American Sushi, though.
Saturday was normal and so was Sunday.
So, 3 days ago now I officially hit my 6 month mark. I have been on my mission for 6 months! I wish I could say, like the other missionaries, that it has gone by really fast. But, to be honest, it has been the slowest time in my entire life. I just thought that it is interesting that it has been 6 months.
So, to talk about Elizabeth having the PenPal with my investigator, her name is Yuna. The best way for you two to communicate is probably by emailing her directly. If it is okay, I am going to give her your email address, Elizabeth, and tell her that she can email you. As for what to talk about - talk about what you like. Tell her about what you don`t like. Tell her about what it is like to live in America. Tell her what you think living in Japan might be like. Tell her about Volleyball. Tell her about anything that 14 year old girls normally talk about. The only request that I have is that she is still learning English, so try and make it not to very hard for her by using slang (though I don`t think that you have a problem with that). Try typing some Japanese for her to read too, you can use Google Translator and the internet to help you do that!
Madisen, I hope that work calms down for you a little bit, you are way おつかれ(Otsukare, hard working). To answer your question, they do kind of celebrate Christmas here. They put up a lot of Christmas decorations on stores and such, but it is more like a shopping holiday than anything else. The major holiday in Japan is New Years Day, if you want to know.
If you are wondering what you can send me for Christmas, the only thing that I would ask is that you send me a nice CD with good songs on it. I will leave it up to your judgement but they need to `draw my attention towards the Savior and cannot be used for mere entertainment (as the missionary white handbook and our residential black mission binder states)`. I thought about a few songs that I might want you to send me in the CD:
1. Amazing Grace
2. Good Remixes of the songs; Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief, I am a child of God, God Be with You Till We Meet Again (Try YouTube for good remixes or covers of these songs)
3. The Song from Ken Burns; the Civil War (I am really embarrassed that I forgot the name of it)
4. Battle Hymn of the Republic
5. Silent Night or some other really cool Christmas Song like that
7. You Raise Me Up
8. Some tracks from Les Miserables that you think would be good (Sorry, no Master of the House :(
9. You Found Me (If you think that it could be appropriate)
Again, if you think of anything you have listened to that you think I would like and would meet the criteria, then please send it. I don`t care if you use 1 or 10 CDs to send me all the songs, just please send them.
Also,can you send me some more pictures please. Can you also send me a `quote book` with quotes that you think that I might really like, from example like Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter or the like. Thank You!
Thanks so much for telling me that Arlynn is alright. I have spent my entire week worrying over whether or not she is ok.
By the way, we got our new transfer information today. All of us in Hirakata are staying except for Elder Steers. Get this, Elder Steers, a fourth transfer missionary, is going to be training a 2nd transfer Japanese companion while being...zone leader! Crazy huh. I am just glad that it is him instead of me...
Speaking of Christmas presents, I think I know what I might want to get for everyone, the only thing is that I am not sure whether or not it will be there in time for Christmas. Another thing is that I will need you to replace the money that I do use for the presents in my bank account after I buy them. I will let you know when I do buy them so that you can do that!
Love all of you so much and we will talk again next week!
With Much Love,
Elder Klein
| Fall in Hirakata |
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Wednesday, November 13, 2013
The Love House
こんにちは (Konnichi wa)!
Hey family, how is it going? I hope that you all are well and happy.
So, this past week sure has been an interesting one. I have to tell you that we saw the woman with the mental condition last P-day and we haven`t seen her since. I think she is gone now for good, I think, but I feel so sorry for her. She is clearly out of her mind, but she gave us all a fright last P-Day when she tried to get into our apartment by pulling on the door (luckily, we had it locked). After that, she decided to barricade us into our apartment by using umbrellas and splashing water underneath our door. I feel so bad for her...
Other than that, my last P-Day was all filled with lessons with investigators, uh... We tried to go to Nara (a place I really want to go to where you can touch magical deer, I am not kidding, Google it) but since the Zone leaders needed to come by for our signature on a baptismal interview record and because they were late and because the two other missionaries in Hirakata spent three hours emailing, we aren't able to go again this week. I really hope that if no one gets transferred next week, then we can finally go. But, I have no idea what we are going to be doing today, so we will see what happens.
So, last week, again, was very interesting. On Tuesday, we got to go with an investigator of the other two missionaries to lunch. We got to eat terrible tasting sushi along with Mugichan (tea), so suffice it to say that it wasn't the best lunch ever. We did, however, get to meet the investigator`s Catholic friend who was super nice. We got to go to a place called 愛の家 (Ai no ie) which means `The House of Love` with them. When we saw the sign, Elder Rasmusen started to get a little freaked out. I think that he thought that it was a Love Hotel (which for some reason are very abundant here in Hirakata). After a little bit of work, we convinced Elder Rasmusen to go up with us with the investigator and his friend to check it out. Much to Elder Rasmusen`s relief `The House of Love` isn't a Love Hotel, but rather a Old Folks gathering hot spot. It was kinda like a cafe with only old people in it. We kept hearing `かこいね!(Kakoi ne)` which means handsome/cool a lot from the old people when 4 big Gaijins walk in wearing suits with 2 little old Japanese people. The cafe was pretty cool, it even had a miniature golf course on the roof and a smoked filled room in the back with old Japanese men playing Majong. After we told them that we couldn't stay very long, we were escorted out by the investigator`s friend. Then, before I even knew it, she stuffed 2000¥into my hand before we were about to leave. After a bit of effort, we managed to explain to her that, as missionaries, we cannot accept money.
After that we headed to Abeno, in Osaka, for a baptismal interview for the Zone Leaders investigator. When we got there, we found out that she wasn`t even home and that her and her husband were out of town and wouldn't be back until the next day. So, we had to return to Abeno the next day, as well, for an interview with her, which she passed - which is great. By the way, Abeno is 1 hour away from Hirakata by Train and costs 1500¥ round trip each time.
On Friday, Elder Rasmusen interviewed the investigator from before (The House of Love one) for a baptism which he passed with flying colors! To celebrate, we went to grab some food at a restaurant and then an ice cream cone at McDonalds. I don`t like McDonalds food, but something caught my eye at the McDonalds stand. I saw a Pokemon 2014 Calender being sold at the McDonalds and it was only 350¥! How could I pass by this opportunity? So, yes, I bought a Pokemon 2014 calender which I am very proud of. Heck, they gave me so many free item slips along with it that it basically pays for itself.
I also got to go on companion exchanges with Elder Broeder last Saturday. It was interesting, to say the least and I think that we really didn't get anything accomplished. This week, I get to go on two companion exchanges, one with Steers choro and another one with one of the zone leaders. The joys of being a district leaders companion.
We held the baptismal service for the investigator yesterday and it was good. We scheduled his baptism for 1 hour before sacrament meeting, but he was 20 minutes late for his own baptism and, because he is such an old man, he couldn't change fast enough for us to finish the program before sacrament meeting started. At least, he got all the important parts down though - the baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and the confirmation. Yesterday, was also the primary program which was interesting, to say the least. Children screaming, kids punching each other while on the stand, and out of tune singing were all part of the fun.
I also need to talk to Elizabeth about something. So, we are teaching these two teenage girls, one is 17 and the other is 14. I talked to our investigator, the 14 year old, a little bit about you. I told her that you are also 14 and that you, like her, love volleyball. I talked with her about it and she thinks that it would be really cool if you got to be pen pals. I said that I would ask you what you think about it and see if you would like to do it. The investigator loves English and really wants to go to America some day, so don`t worry about writing or typing a letter in Japanese, although you could learn a little bit of Japanese from her for me. She also is having a little bit of a rough time in her life. I can`t tell you everything, but suffice it to say that she needs some really good friends with good standards that she can talk to. Please tell me if you are interested in having a pen pal from Japan ok?
Well I think that is about it. I love you all!
Sincerely,
Elder.... ok...
With Much Love,
Elder Klein
Hey family, how is it going? I hope that you all are well and happy.
So, this past week sure has been an interesting one. I have to tell you that we saw the woman with the mental condition last P-day and we haven`t seen her since. I think she is gone now for good, I think, but I feel so sorry for her. She is clearly out of her mind, but she gave us all a fright last P-Day when she tried to get into our apartment by pulling on the door (luckily, we had it locked). After that, she decided to barricade us into our apartment by using umbrellas and splashing water underneath our door. I feel so bad for her...
Other than that, my last P-Day was all filled with lessons with investigators, uh... We tried to go to Nara (a place I really want to go to where you can touch magical deer, I am not kidding, Google it) but since the Zone leaders needed to come by for our signature on a baptismal interview record and because they were late and because the two other missionaries in Hirakata spent three hours emailing, we aren't able to go again this week. I really hope that if no one gets transferred next week, then we can finally go. But, I have no idea what we are going to be doing today, so we will see what happens.
So, last week, again, was very interesting. On Tuesday, we got to go with an investigator of the other two missionaries to lunch. We got to eat terrible tasting sushi along with Mugichan (tea), so suffice it to say that it wasn't the best lunch ever. We did, however, get to meet the investigator`s Catholic friend who was super nice. We got to go to a place called 愛の家 (Ai no ie) which means `The House of Love` with them. When we saw the sign, Elder Rasmusen started to get a little freaked out. I think that he thought that it was a Love Hotel (which for some reason are very abundant here in Hirakata). After a little bit of work, we convinced Elder Rasmusen to go up with us with the investigator and his friend to check it out. Much to Elder Rasmusen`s relief `The House of Love` isn't a Love Hotel, but rather a Old Folks gathering hot spot. It was kinda like a cafe with only old people in it. We kept hearing `かこいね!(Kakoi ne)` which means handsome/cool a lot from the old people when 4 big Gaijins walk in wearing suits with 2 little old Japanese people. The cafe was pretty cool, it even had a miniature golf course on the roof and a smoked filled room in the back with old Japanese men playing Majong. After we told them that we couldn't stay very long, we were escorted out by the investigator`s friend. Then, before I even knew it, she stuffed 2000¥into my hand before we were about to leave. After a bit of effort, we managed to explain to her that, as missionaries, we cannot accept money.
After that we headed to Abeno, in Osaka, for a baptismal interview for the Zone Leaders investigator. When we got there, we found out that she wasn`t even home and that her and her husband were out of town and wouldn't be back until the next day. So, we had to return to Abeno the next day, as well, for an interview with her, which she passed - which is great. By the way, Abeno is 1 hour away from Hirakata by Train and costs 1500¥ round trip each time.
On Friday, Elder Rasmusen interviewed the investigator from before (The House of Love one) for a baptism which he passed with flying colors! To celebrate, we went to grab some food at a restaurant and then an ice cream cone at McDonalds. I don`t like McDonalds food, but something caught my eye at the McDonalds stand. I saw a Pokemon 2014 Calender being sold at the McDonalds and it was only 350¥! How could I pass by this opportunity? So, yes, I bought a Pokemon 2014 calender which I am very proud of. Heck, they gave me so many free item slips along with it that it basically pays for itself.
I also got to go on companion exchanges with Elder Broeder last Saturday. It was interesting, to say the least and I think that we really didn't get anything accomplished. This week, I get to go on two companion exchanges, one with Steers choro and another one with one of the zone leaders. The joys of being a district leaders companion.
We held the baptismal service for the investigator yesterday and it was good. We scheduled his baptism for 1 hour before sacrament meeting, but he was 20 minutes late for his own baptism and, because he is such an old man, he couldn't change fast enough for us to finish the program before sacrament meeting started. At least, he got all the important parts down though - the baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost, and the confirmation. Yesterday, was also the primary program which was interesting, to say the least. Children screaming, kids punching each other while on the stand, and out of tune singing were all part of the fun.
I also need to talk to Elizabeth about something. So, we are teaching these two teenage girls, one is 17 and the other is 14. I talked to our investigator, the 14 year old, a little bit about you. I told her that you are also 14 and that you, like her, love volleyball. I talked with her about it and she thinks that it would be really cool if you got to be pen pals. I said that I would ask you what you think about it and see if you would like to do it. The investigator loves English and really wants to go to America some day, so don`t worry about writing or typing a letter in Japanese, although you could learn a little bit of Japanese from her for me. She also is having a little bit of a rough time in her life. I can`t tell you everything, but suffice it to say that she needs some really good friends with good standards that she can talk to. Please tell me if you are interested in having a pen pal from Japan ok?
Well I think that is about it. I love you all!
Sincerely,
Elder.... ok...
With Much Love,
Elder Klein
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
We got ourselves a stalker...
Hi Family,
Guess what I get to do today? That's right, we had to schedule 3 lessons today, right in the middle of our P-Day. So, that is what I get to do all day today. The only P-Day normal thing that I guess that I am allowed to do today is email you.
Last P-Day, me and Elder Steers went to some recycle shops to find some kimono belts so that we can make scripture cover cases for our scriptures. It was good and I actually spent a good chunk of my P-Day sewing my scripture cover case by hand. I think that it actually looks pretty good!
Last week, we also had Zone Training Meetings and Interviews with the Mission President. To be honest, I wasn`t really paying attention on what was being said during Zone Training because my mind was too focused on what I was going to be talking to Zinke kaicho about. So, I went in and we basically talked about where my stance is about staying or going, if I am still talking to Aunt Pat, and how he can help. We talked for a little bit, I guess about 15-20 minutes, and it was good. I guess that Zinke kaicho told Zinke shimai about what I am going through because she seemed to give me extra special love and attention when they were there.
Last week, we couldn`t really meet with anyone except for M. Shimai, who is our furthest progressing investigator. We finished teaching her about the plan of salvation and then we watched the movie finding faith in Christ. It was good, but her baby and the baby of the member present were screaming all throughout the movie, so I don`t know if she got the most important bits out of it.
We have just basically been sitting on our butts all this week planning lessons. I hate planning with a passion. I wouldn`t mind it if we planned a lesson here and there, but we are planning one lesson right after another with each lesson taking 1-1 and half hours long to plan and to practice. The thing that is slowing us down is that it seems that we never have enough paper work to do. I swear that there is a form to fill out for everything. It is getting out of control, every zone training meeting we get another form that we have to fill out before we teach someone which just adds to the planning time. Uhh...
On Friday, we had something very interesting happen. So, the Zone leaders told us about someone who was stalking them for about 2 days around the church and their apartment. It was some crazy women who was completely out of her mind. Harmless, but stalking them none the less. Guess who showed up on the Hirakata church on Friday? Yep, the stalker lady. We first heard her when we were, of course, planning lessons. We heard a women`s voice outside in the parking lot and Elder Rasmusen asks me if I think someone is outside of our apartment. I told him yes but that it was only the girls that come to play on our basketball hoop that we have set up outside. Anyways, we continue our planning until we have to head over to the church to make some photocopies of our lesson paperwork. We saw her sitting down in front of the church talking quite loudly to herself...with plants (that seemed to have come out of nowhere) circling her with umbrellas barring the church door behind her. We asked if she was okay and then she said something about the Abeno church, where the zone leaders are. At that point we thought, "Oh crap, it's her". We quickly went inside of the church to make photocopies and locked the door right behind us. We called the Zone leaders to make sure that it was who we thought it was. The Zone leaders told us "yes, it is her" and at that point the 2 other missionaries showed up and started talking to her with us. After debating for some time, the 3 other missionaries thought that they needed to cast out evil spirits from her because she is totally out of her mind. I wanted no part in `casting out evil spirits` so I told them that I would not participate. They tried to give her the blessing but she kept refusing and after a while we left her alone. The other 2 missionaries went in to the church to teach a lesson and we went back to planning. So, we all locked our doors while she wandered around outside for 5 hours. She finally left, though, when we were heading down to the train station and she followed us down there. I think that she is gone now, probably to another area`s church, but you never know... So, I got to deal with a stalker this week.
I am sending you some pictures of the Halloween party last week. Sorry I forgot to attach them.
All right, well, I don`t have much time until I have to go teach another lesson, so I hope that you all take care. If you have any questions on how the depression is going, please talk to Aunt Pat.
Love,
Kolton
Tuesday, October 29, 2013
Halloween Party
Hey Family,
It has been another tough week.
About a week ago, we received a new way to plan for our lessons from the Zone leaders. We have been trying to plan all of our lessons this way, but it is taking up so much time. It now takes roughly 2 1/2 hours to plan for one lesson and we had 5 lessons last week. I, also, haven`t been able to exercise for the last couple of days, due to the Sabbath and a couple of typhoons ripping through. It just seems like I am stuck inside, because I am unable to exercise outside, then we study for 3 hours, have lunch, then plan for a lesson for 2 and 1/2 hours. By the time we are done with all of that, then it is like 3:00 and we still haven`t done anything for the day. Frustrating.
We mostly have just been having lessons with K. Kyodai. He is a really interesting guy. I won`t tell you everything, but in our last lesson, we had a church member with us, A. Kyodai, and we were explaining about 3 Nephi 17. All of sudden he, K. Kyodai, got really agitated. He was rocking back and forth looking really angry. I genuinely thought that he was going to punch the church member right in the face during the middle of the lesson. When we asked him what was wrong, he told us that he thought that the translation for a certain word was wrong and the wrong word for 'mercy' was used in a passage. He continued to become more and more agitated until we had to share with him a scripture about contention being of the devil before he calmed down a little bit. It was silly that he got so worked up, but I am grateful that he didn`t punch the church member in the face.
Well, I hope that everyone had a great time at Disneyland it sounds like it was really fun and I hope that you had a great birthday, Elizabeth! I really miss the nice California weather. It has been getting really cold here in Japan lately and I have had to bust out my winter gear a little bit. I am sure that it is going to get freezing soon, though. I want Elizabeth to know that it was getting so cold last week that I had to break down and buy a scarf and I have worn it a couple of times since then.
Madisen, are you really liking Hello Kitty stuff? Hello Kitty is kinda like the 'Wheres Waldo" of Japan. No matter where you look while walking around, if you look hard enough there is probably something Hello Kitty related close by. You have to look hard though or else you won`t be able to see it. I hope that work for you and Vic will ease up in a little bit, but until then take care. By the way, I don`t care if you are boring, I just love to hear from my Big Sis.
The best part of this week, though, was probably when we went to a Halloween Party put on by the ward. It was really fun and I wore a great costume. I just picked up a 100 Yen costume mask at a Daiso and the costume was a mask of a Duck. I will let you see the pictures, but I was a Duck, Elder Steers was a Chicken, Elder Rasmusen was a Monkey, and Elder Brader was a Phantom. It was pretty fun and they had a couple of games too. They even had a Pokemon game that I played. We played a hide and seek game with all the little kids too. We had to find a hiding spot and if the little kids found us, we had to play Jon Kenpo with them for them to win candy. To conclude the night, the little kids got to smash some pinatas with candy in them. If even one little piece of candy fell out of the pinata, then every single little kid, all 30 of them, would dive to the middle of the circle where the person hitting the pinata was at. I just felt a little bad for Elder Steers because he had to coordinate with a bunch of hyped up kids on sugar swinging a big stick around!
Thank you for sending package, by the way. It was really nice to get some American candy and some more stuff. I think that for P-Day today, myself and Elder Steers are going to go and do some more shopping while Elder Brader and Elder Rasmusen are going to Costco and poking around in there. I hope that we can find something really cool in a Recycle Shop. I don`t know if I have told you or not, but Recycle Shops are one of the best things in Japan. It is like a Pawn Shop almost, but way cheaper, more fun, crazier, and Asian like. You would have to step inside of one to understand. They are really fun, but sometimes you have to be careful.
Everyone has been asking me how I am doing and the answer is the same -still not so good. The vivid dreams have almost passed away - I think that I am really close for them being over. I am just trying to do my best to keep going through this day. Aunt Pat sent me a poem that I keep reading over and over again, though. The poem is Milton`s Blindness. The final line always strikes me, `They also serve who only stand and wait.` That is only what I can try and do, stand and wait. I can`t really handle doing too much else, so I am pushing myself to try and stand and wait. Standing and waiting goes against how I have lived my life thus far, but I am trying.
I love you all and everything that you have been sending me. Please continue to write the great emails. I will talk to you all again next week.
Love,
Elder Klein
It has been another tough week.
About a week ago, we received a new way to plan for our lessons from the Zone leaders. We have been trying to plan all of our lessons this way, but it is taking up so much time. It now takes roughly 2 1/2 hours to plan for one lesson and we had 5 lessons last week. I, also, haven`t been able to exercise for the last couple of days, due to the Sabbath and a couple of typhoons ripping through. It just seems like I am stuck inside, because I am unable to exercise outside, then we study for 3 hours, have lunch, then plan for a lesson for 2 and 1/2 hours. By the time we are done with all of that, then it is like 3:00 and we still haven`t done anything for the day. Frustrating.
We mostly have just been having lessons with K. Kyodai. He is a really interesting guy. I won`t tell you everything, but in our last lesson, we had a church member with us, A. Kyodai, and we were explaining about 3 Nephi 17. All of sudden he, K. Kyodai, got really agitated. He was rocking back and forth looking really angry. I genuinely thought that he was going to punch the church member right in the face during the middle of the lesson. When we asked him what was wrong, he told us that he thought that the translation for a certain word was wrong and the wrong word for 'mercy' was used in a passage. He continued to become more and more agitated until we had to share with him a scripture about contention being of the devil before he calmed down a little bit. It was silly that he got so worked up, but I am grateful that he didn`t punch the church member in the face.
Well, I hope that everyone had a great time at Disneyland it sounds like it was really fun and I hope that you had a great birthday, Elizabeth! I really miss the nice California weather. It has been getting really cold here in Japan lately and I have had to bust out my winter gear a little bit. I am sure that it is going to get freezing soon, though. I want Elizabeth to know that it was getting so cold last week that I had to break down and buy a scarf and I have worn it a couple of times since then.
Madisen, are you really liking Hello Kitty stuff? Hello Kitty is kinda like the 'Wheres Waldo" of Japan. No matter where you look while walking around, if you look hard enough there is probably something Hello Kitty related close by. You have to look hard though or else you won`t be able to see it. I hope that work for you and Vic will ease up in a little bit, but until then take care. By the way, I don`t care if you are boring, I just love to hear from my Big Sis.
The best part of this week, though, was probably when we went to a Halloween Party put on by the ward. It was really fun and I wore a great costume. I just picked up a 100 Yen costume mask at a Daiso and the costume was a mask of a Duck. I will let you see the pictures, but I was a Duck, Elder Steers was a Chicken, Elder Rasmusen was a Monkey, and Elder Brader was a Phantom. It was pretty fun and they had a couple of games too. They even had a Pokemon game that I played. We played a hide and seek game with all the little kids too. We had to find a hiding spot and if the little kids found us, we had to play Jon Kenpo with them for them to win candy. To conclude the night, the little kids got to smash some pinatas with candy in them. If even one little piece of candy fell out of the pinata, then every single little kid, all 30 of them, would dive to the middle of the circle where the person hitting the pinata was at. I just felt a little bad for Elder Steers because he had to coordinate with a bunch of hyped up kids on sugar swinging a big stick around!
Thank you for sending package, by the way. It was really nice to get some American candy and some more stuff. I think that for P-Day today, myself and Elder Steers are going to go and do some more shopping while Elder Brader and Elder Rasmusen are going to Costco and poking around in there. I hope that we can find something really cool in a Recycle Shop. I don`t know if I have told you or not, but Recycle Shops are one of the best things in Japan. It is like a Pawn Shop almost, but way cheaper, more fun, crazier, and Asian like. You would have to step inside of one to understand. They are really fun, but sometimes you have to be careful.
Everyone has been asking me how I am doing and the answer is the same -still not so good. The vivid dreams have almost passed away - I think that I am really close for them being over. I am just trying to do my best to keep going through this day. Aunt Pat sent me a poem that I keep reading over and over again, though. The poem is Milton`s Blindness. The final line always strikes me, `They also serve who only stand and wait.` That is only what I can try and do, stand and wait. I can`t really handle doing too much else, so I am pushing myself to try and stand and wait. Standing and waiting goes against how I have lived my life thus far, but I am trying.
I love you all and everything that you have been sending me. Please continue to write the great emails. I will talk to you all again next week.
Love,
Elder Klein
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Little kids, Final Fantasy, and Being Tall
| Happy Face. I know that he is still struggling but he does look better. |
Hi Family,
So, it has been another week and it has passed by really slow. From the sounds of your letters, you know from Aunt Pat that I haven`t been sleeping very well. It is just lately that I have very vivid nightmares at night that have been sticking to me like a plague for the last week. I haven`t been able to get a decent amount of sleep for the last week, so I am always tired. I think that I will ask for a priesthood blessing tonight to help me sleep better. But, the talks with Aunt Pat have helped. She really is nice and kind and it is great to hear a voice of help and reason. You are just surrounded by missionaries all the time, so it is hard to keep being you. It is a weird thing, but the longer you have been a missionary, the more people try to stuff into your head that THIS is what you need to be thinking like, what kind of person you need to be, and anything else is not ok.
But, as for interesting things that have happened this week, we had the chance to sing to a bunch of little kids. So, one of the church members around here, named A. Shimai, who is from America, teaches at a Preschool where the children learn in a pure English environment. Halloween is around the corner and they were planning a party for the little kids. So, as part of their party, they invited us to do a little performance for the little kids, namely, singing. So, we practiced like 10 minutes beforehand, then, with only our voices and a little ukulele in tow, we went into the school to sing. I don`t know how A. Shimai can put up with it all day, the kids were so excited to see huge Gaijin in their little school. They all sat around us with the four of us missionaries in the front of the play room. We sang Keep the Commandments, Popcorn Popping, Walk in the Light, and I am a Child of God. All the workers and little kids were clapping and giggling while we were singing, though. Then, they asked for us to get a picture with the little kids - which was a crazy idea since about 40 little kids just ran to get a picture with us! I really want to get that picture from A. Shimai as soon as possible so I can send it to you.
Well, I also had the opportunity to find a really cool guy this week to teach. His name is H. Kyodai. He looks, as Steers choro puts it, straight out of Final Fantasy. He really is cool though, he is a programming major at a local tech school. We gave him a church tour in which he told us that he felt something really special when we prayed right in front of the baptismal font. Right after, he said that we wanted to be baptized. It was really fun and I can`t wait to meet him again on Tuesday for our 3rd lesson with him.
We also had Zone Training this week. It was ok, but I think that I like my last Zone better. I don`t know if I have told you but up in Hirakata, we are our own District. Yes, just the four of us. I have yet to experience a District meeting but what would we do in ways of announcements? We tell each other everything anyway. But, it seems like we are in a very weird situation. We are in our own District with the four of us and we are part of the Osaka zone, even though we are smack dab in the middle of the Osaka North zone. It makes no sense, but that is missionary work for you. Anyways, we had Zone Training this week and I had the opportunity to meet some of the other missionaries in our zone. I have to tell you of a story of an elder. So, I was talking to the zone leaders and they told me that I was a really big guy and asked how tall I am. I responded that I was 6`4`` and this one Elder, who was standing a little bit away, got really annoyed that I said that. He was really tall and lanky kind of guy and he said that there was no way that I was 6'4 because he was TOTALLY taller than I was and he was only 6'3. At this point, I am leaning on a wall and kind of slouching. He needed to prove that he was taller than me so he asked me to stand back to back. I stood up back to back and stood up straight. Everyone said that I was at least an inch taller than him and then he got really annoyed and wouldn`t talk to me for the rest of the zone training. I don`t know why I felt I needed to share that but I thought it was pretty Omoshiroii.
Halloween is also coming up. Halloween isn`t a big deal here in Japan, only the stores use Halloween stuff so that they can increase their sales, but that is about it. Our ward, though, is having a Halloween party this week and it should be really fun. We having been inviting everyone we have been meeting to come to it and it will be really cool.
As for stuff that needs to be sent over to me in Japan. I think that I am pretty good, maybe put a little bit of money in my bank account, instead, so I can buy cool things over here. There is a lot of cool and wacky stuff that you can buy here in Japan.
As for the pictures of me, I will try and work on that. I have been going through my pictures and have realized that I don`t have a lot of pictures with me in them. I will send you a picture today of me last P-Day and the last time I taught Eikaiwa (English class) in Otsu.
Well, I think that is about it. We wanted to go to a place called Nara today for P-Day, but we didn`t get permission to go. We will try again next week, but I think that instead we will go shopping for some stuff. I need to buy a nice scarf and sock-tie today and well as a G-Shock. I don`t know if you know this, but every Kobe missionary needs to have a G-Shock and a sock-tie. It is part of the rules. It is starting to get cold as well. Starting next week, it is suit season for Elders and we have to wear a suit all the time, dang.
I want to let you all know that I extremely appreciate your loving words of support. I am trying to get through each day one step at a time. Keep sending the encouraging words of support, I really do need them right now. I am trying to send you positive things instead of negative things in my emails, because I think that you hear enough about it from Aunt Pat. Keep sending great emails and pictures.
Love,
Elder Klein
| English Class in Otsu. Taken the first part of October. |
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Taking off the cape....
Dear Blog Readers,
It's me again. Sorry that I missed posting last week. Honestly, it was so emotionally raw that there was little that I could pick out of Kolton's email that would be ok for me to publically post.
First of all, I want to thank all the family members that have reached out to us on Kolton's behalf. It is nice to know that he has support. Unfortunately, all missions (and life, in general) don't go the way that we have come to expect. We have appreciated all of the tearful conversations that we have had with many of you in the last two weeks. Thank you.
Here is the latest update. Kolton has been transferred to Hirakata, which is just outside of Osaka, Japan's second largest city. He has received a new companion, which was essential to Kolton's well being. He is living in the old Osaka mission home with his companion and another companionship, which consists of Elder Steers - one of Kolton's roommates in the MTC. His new companion, Elder Rasmusen, has been handpicked by his mission president, so we know that he will be a good match for the problems that Kolton has been having.
Kolton was able to receive some medication and it has helped him with the physical aspects of depression but hasn't received much relief from the depression, itself. He committed that he would stay through last weeks transfer, in an effort to allow the medicine time to work and, also, to possibly receive a companion that could help him through this. He must feel very safe with Elder Rasmusen because he has, now, said that he is going to try to get through this next six weeks. At this point, he is just kicking the rock down the road and willing himself to make it to that point.
This is nothing short of miraculous - we thought that we would have a kid coming home this week. Actually, most of the aspects of this whole experience have been miraculous. Having a mission president that has been pro-active and attentive has been a miracle. Getting any kind of medicine in Japan has been a miracle. My sister being able to get permission to do therapy over the phone twice a week has been a miracle. Getting a companion that is willing to take a sick kid under his wing is a miracle. But, the biggest miracle has been Kolton, digging so deep and be willing to work so hard to try to get better while the depression is constantly screaming at him to just go home to get better. He said this past week, in a therapy session with Pat, that he has to take off his cape. Kolton has always been an overachiever. He has done things that required so much work and effort that few people were willing to attempt it. This has been a blessing in the past, but it is his curse now. He feels that he now has to, in order to get better, lower his expectations of himself. To be average. To take of his superhero cape...but, truly, in my eyes, he has never been more of a hero.
Before I post this, I need to thank my sister for putting my son at the forefront of her life. She had the skills and training to help him when no one else did. Kolton loves her and trusts her and, we knew, if anyone could help him, Pat could. So, thank you, sis.
Kolton is not out of the woods, yet. He has a lot to overcome and it still may not be possible to treat this fully while he is on a mission. But, he is definitely on a good path with many good people helping him. Please keep him in your prayers -they are working. We love and appreciate you and your concern for our boy.
Love, Jillyn
It's me again. Sorry that I missed posting last week. Honestly, it was so emotionally raw that there was little that I could pick out of Kolton's email that would be ok for me to publically post.
First of all, I want to thank all the family members that have reached out to us on Kolton's behalf. It is nice to know that he has support. Unfortunately, all missions (and life, in general) don't go the way that we have come to expect. We have appreciated all of the tearful conversations that we have had with many of you in the last two weeks. Thank you.
Here is the latest update. Kolton has been transferred to Hirakata, which is just outside of Osaka, Japan's second largest city. He has received a new companion, which was essential to Kolton's well being. He is living in the old Osaka mission home with his companion and another companionship, which consists of Elder Steers - one of Kolton's roommates in the MTC. His new companion, Elder Rasmusen, has been handpicked by his mission president, so we know that he will be a good match for the problems that Kolton has been having.
Kolton was able to receive some medication and it has helped him with the physical aspects of depression but hasn't received much relief from the depression, itself. He committed that he would stay through last weeks transfer, in an effort to allow the medicine time to work and, also, to possibly receive a companion that could help him through this. He must feel very safe with Elder Rasmusen because he has, now, said that he is going to try to get through this next six weeks. At this point, he is just kicking the rock down the road and willing himself to make it to that point.
This is nothing short of miraculous - we thought that we would have a kid coming home this week. Actually, most of the aspects of this whole experience have been miraculous. Having a mission president that has been pro-active and attentive has been a miracle. Getting any kind of medicine in Japan has been a miracle. My sister being able to get permission to do therapy over the phone twice a week has been a miracle. Getting a companion that is willing to take a sick kid under his wing is a miracle. But, the biggest miracle has been Kolton, digging so deep and be willing to work so hard to try to get better while the depression is constantly screaming at him to just go home to get better. He said this past week, in a therapy session with Pat, that he has to take off his cape. Kolton has always been an overachiever. He has done things that required so much work and effort that few people were willing to attempt it. This has been a blessing in the past, but it is his curse now. He feels that he now has to, in order to get better, lower his expectations of himself. To be average. To take of his superhero cape...but, truly, in my eyes, he has never been more of a hero.
Before I post this, I need to thank my sister for putting my son at the forefront of her life. She had the skills and training to help him when no one else did. Kolton loves her and trusts her and, we knew, if anyone could help him, Pat could. So, thank you, sis.
Kolton is not out of the woods, yet. He has a lot to overcome and it still may not be possible to treat this fully while he is on a mission. But, he is definitely on a good path with many good people helping him. Please keep him in your prayers -they are working. We love and appreciate you and your concern for our boy.
Love, Jillyn
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